Did You Just Take Her Man??....

Happy Monday wonderful people, I hope your morning started off good and the afternoon is kicking off with many cool things.. So I was thinking about something that caught my attention the other day, what we look for in a mate.. A Facebook friend of mine made a status about how the physical does matter because it's the first thing we see and to say it doesn't would be a lie, now as true as that is many factors now fall into play.. 
Let's think about it for a minuet............................ Yes physical is kind of a big deal but a pretty face doesn't always mean you'll have a thoughtful mind, so I'm going to be really real about the truth dealing with this topic.. I for one want to be with my equal in the regard of my mind, spirituality, physical, and health; it's all I ask for really not that you look like Dwayne Johnson or something.. Now sisters let's be real about something if your out here eating all types of meat, you have unwanted weight and your not spiritually connected to the Most High do you really think your going to snag a beautiful chocolate brother who is a vegetarian/vegan, lives a healthy lifestyle so he's pretty fit and has a strong relationship with the Most High?? I mean seriously what are you thinking sister, even if you snag him some how it's like what extremes do you go to, just to keep him because I know it's not doing hip-hop abs with Sean T or putting down that chicken wing.. 

HMFFF I know what your doing sadly but I'm not mad at you because your doing you and well sisters like me do what we do.. I just don't understand the need to give up such a treasure just to keep a man?? I also don't understand why sisters who take care of their health/bodies, stay spiritually connected to the Most High, and keep their minds constantly aware of the news and cultural understandings/beliefs end up super single and alone?? I don't get it but then again there's a sister out there "doing what she does" to hold on tight to that brother she doesn't truly deserve whereas he himself knows he should be elsewhere with someone else....his equal and that sister should be with her equal even if he's not as pretty as Will Smith, that's just life and what's fair, right??.. 
I don't mean to sound like I'm mad or upset hey that's just how it is, right....life!!.. So sisters all I'm trying to say is step your game up and actually make yourself deserving of such a brother, and this situation can be reversed for the brothers as well, so with that said let's put that chicken wing or pork chop down and get jiggy with Sean T..
I hope you all have a wonderful day full of light and happiness my lovely people, stay blessed..

Peace & Blessings, That Black Girl 






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Sean T
Sunny Day