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Beautiful sunny freezing cold Tuesday my lovelies, I hope your morning isn't as cold but is as sunny as mine.. So I started my day reading up on local and world news read about; Muslim orphans who need homes but Islamic law won't allow American Muslim families to adopt them, a newly wed Indian couple honeymooning in South Africa and the wife is found dead taxi driver says husband hired him to kill her, Germans have the most extreme view of Muslims, Obama's Kenyan grandmother went on hajj and prayed for him to become Muslim, wikileaks still tripping.. 
Finally I read up on my local news and the first happening that pops out at me is this.. I am really disgusted by the fact that this young man's trial for justice is still being procesed, they need to charge all the young men who were apart of this terrible incident.. Bullying and school beatings have never sat well with me even if as some might say "a little name calling and shoving never hurt anyone".. Those kind of interactions escalate to something more, they always do.. I will never understand the mindset of those who bully, but to have been one who's been bullied as a child even though some would say my case was harmless it left mental scares, those are some of the hardest to heal, in my opinion.. I know there are millions of statements out here in medical journals and books by doctors explaining why bullies bully but I'm just not okay with it at all, I get that some of their issues/reasons are as terrible if not worse then their reason for doing it but that doesn't make it okay.. Adults need to pay more attention to these children and work to reach out to them and not give up because even though these children hurt, others are being hurt in return being killed/killing themselves and that's not okay.. Those of us who can stand up for those in need, especially if you see it happen do so sometimes it's as simple as telling the bully to stop other times you might have to call authorities for help either way we can do it so lets!!..
Peace & Blessings, That Black Girl
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Happy Wednesday day my lovely people hope your day is radiantly bright, mine is......so far -laughs out loud-.. So while I got dressed this early afternoon I thought about something really random "so if we're already complete why do we need a man/woman to help complete us, or is it that we're incomplete but we need that other half to our whole to help complete us??" I thought to myself, that's a paradox, right??I've heard two different discussions concerning this question, those who agree that we're incomplete until we meet our "soul-mate/kindred soul/lover/true love" whatever you want to call it.. Then the other group believes you should be a complete person before you meet your other half.. When I talk to either of these groups I always find myself pushed into the middle and I know I haven't been living a long enough life to say what's really true or not, so all I have is a belief and an opinion which isn't much when it comes down to the reality of the situation..My point out of all of this is if I'm so complete then the saying "you don't need a man to complete you" (usually said to single ladies by their friends in relationships) technically holds truth and in the end is truth?? I personally think the sisters yelling this idiotic bologna need to sit down and shut up -laughs-......because in actuality while your steadily preaching to me your not walking the walk so why say that to me??.. It's honestly one thing for a sister to be independent and do for herself but at the end of the day she wants to be with somebody for the long run, most times she won't make this known OOOOOOOHHHHHH but she is secretly desiring it, definitely.. So sisters telling use single-doomed sisters "you don't need a man" how about you come join us in happy sometimes lonely singledom.......... "YEAH RIGHT!!" she'd say -laughs out loud-.. 
AAAAAhhhhhh aside from my relationship rants I think it was last week I read that the Gulf is "supposedly clean", YEAH RIGHT.......and to prove this so-called-truth Obama and his daughter Sasha (I think) took a swim at the beach to prove it, they'll soon be turning into mutants in my opinion, but like I say it's just my opinion -sinisterly smiles-.. Man oooohhhhh man what is the world coming to, and if that hurricane hits the Gulf as is predicted worst-case-scenario, ALL that residual will be making everyone down there sick, so sad so sad.. They need to stop punching holes into Mother Earth that's all I'm saying, the end surely is near, I'll pray for you all -laughs hard- NO but seriously I will -smiles-..I hope you all go out today do something free possibly because times are hard but that doesn't mean don't enjoy the day, so I leave you all with that relationship rant and the hope of a beautiful day..
I don't take any credit for the pictures used..It's A Beautiful Day (Click Me)Ohhhhhh.....Soulmate my favorite K-Drama (Click Me)Obama and Sasha (Click Me)
Peace & Blessings, That Black Girl
Finally I read up on my local news and the first happening that pops out at me is this.. I am really disgusted by the fact that this young man's trial for justice is still being procesed, they need to charge all the young men who were apart of this terrible incident.. Bullying and school beatings have never sat well with me even if as some might say "a little name calling and shoving never hurt anyone".. Those kind of interactions escalate to something more, they always do.. I will never understand the mindset of those who bully, but to have been one who's been bullied as a child even though some would say my case was harmless it left mental scares, those are some of the hardest to heal, in my opinion.. 
